a blog friend asked me this question.... ------------------------------------------------- Males in particular are highly visual creatures( from a women's magazine, lol), would you have loved her (or get attracted to her) the same if she looked different? Just a thought. hugs take care

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wow... how do i answer this??? honestly i recall talking to my gf prior to even seeing her picture and thinking she seems to be a sweet and caring person. did my feelings change from her being just sweet to something else after i finally saw her pic? i'm not gonna lie so have to admit i thought she was really beautiful after seeing the pics. sure men are visual. i think most people are. but i've proven in the past that i'm just not only attracted to physical beauty. maybe when i was younger... sure. but as we get older i think we tend to look beyond that. i think what attracts me to her is her goodness. she told me a promise that she made to her mum that she wouldnt do something until she was 20. in this day and age where promises are easily discarded i thought what she did was extraordinary. not only did she make a promise but she also kept it. as we talked more and our feelings grew, we found that our values are similar. with her i dont have to keep up a front and be cool. i can be a whiney little boy who is so insecure about life.

 so in getting back to the original question... i wouldnt have loved her only just because she is beautiful. if she was just a plain looking girl i would still be attracted to her because i know her heart and values. fortunately for me she has the complete package. lol.

 kisses for my love and hugs for everyone else.... goodnight all.