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I was a cocky( in terms of interpersonal relationshipz) naive, self righteous, and spoiled. In terms of guyz ( the ones i fell for) i was clingy, jealous, possesive, and non trusting...in terms of self..i was non decisive, non assertive...and a plain ol push over. My life used to be full of pain, but i finally said NO MORE. Thre differenc between now and then is that i finally have help.....

Not really sure....Jun. 30, 2005

Oh man,

I hate this feeling, total confusion, totally "lost". I hate the fact that people never really understand what someone else is feeling or going through until they feel ir or go through it themselves. I am sooo lost, i have no idea what to do. I am in love with a pretty cool guy, i mean he makes me feel things no other guy could even compare to. I want to be with him, i want to share my world with him. But at the same time, I keep having these random notions to hang out with other guys, even though i know it would upset him. Mainly one, and i don't understand it, he's nothing, nothing compared to the guy i'm in love with. I feel so bad, we just went through such a huge ordeal over things like this.

It's like we keep going back and forth and through circles, round and round. I make huge mistakes, i tried hard to push him away (in the beginning) but i never cheated, i never strayed.but i allowed him to think i did..and when i saw he wasn't leaving, i worked overtime to make up for the stuff i made him believe ..and when there was a possibility of him THINKING i was falling for another guy i cut that short...completely ended the friendship lol. But..right now..i feel like...ughhh i dunno how i feel =(


I understand what happened to him, he felt like he was as close to perfect boyfriend as possible and i messed up, so after awhile tha gets to you and you start to feel like it' wont be such a big deal if i hang with so and so..or well...it be ok if i have feelings for so and so..i mean i've been such a good mate and my mate taking it for granted...

I guess thas how i feel and i shouldn't feel tha way, cuz i haven't been perfect or even close. But then again when i think about itI KNOW THE STUFF I didn't do, the stuff i coulda done, regardless of wha i led him to believe..I KNOW THE TRUTH lol and i was damn near perfect as far as fighting temptations and all that goes. So i guess now thas why i feel like.....like i'm feeling now.

It's real confusing though, ....why would i give up a relationship with someone i love, over...over wha? Some guy who makes me feel like he'd be the best boyfriend in the world lol ..i guess i'm looking at it like , i wanna play the field but still keep my boo lol *hangs head low*  omg, what happened to me? I'm totally miss committed, miss one woman type of gal, miss monogamy.....and i do not, do not, do not wanna hurt him...and i do not wanna be with this other person, but i can't help being intriged by the thought of  hanging with em and cuddling and  stuff either =/
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