TIMING is EVERYTHING

As i face turning 24, i start to reflect on my life. It's not old, but i'm not a kid anymore either. Someone else said rushing to be an adult takes away from your childhood---true....but at 24....adulthood is already here! So it's not rushing to grow up, ur already grown up, now is the time to act like it.

For my spiritual people :

  1st Corithians 13:11

When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things.

(What does that mean to you?)

For me in my life, that means that a lot of my old habbits, ways of thinking, and priorities need to mature.( Professionally, and personally)

Professionally speaking  ...i can tell i've matured on many levels. I'm reading more and networking, just generally fine tuning my craft( real easte & mortgage--hola at ya girl! lol) 

Socially and personally speaking  i've also matured in the sense that i used to be very boy crazy, and wrapped up in having a man becuz i was afraid  of being alone.

Ladies we gotta wake up. I mean in the last few years we've set the bar for how men treat us pretty low. I can't even get mad at the men, why would they work hard at "wooing" me when Keisha down the street gone give it to em regardless of how he treat her, she gone give him her $$ regardless of how many times he cheat. She gone let him keep coming back regardless of how many times he hit  her, or take her car and keep it for days at a time, leaving her stranded....LADIES GET IT TOGETHER...

Biggest No~No's tha more n more women are starting to accept

1.)Sitting on ya  butt living off the woman's income

2.) 10 baby mama's and doing nothing for none of them( uh..dummy, wha u think he gonna do for u and urz??)

3.) Flyest car/truck.., stay fresh to def, --but can't NEVER Pay the tab at dinner/movies/get u a teddy bear, etc, etc..... i mean can ya'll at least go half???

4.) No job, not in school..but NEVER come see u before 12 midnight....uhm..wtf what else he got to do???

5.) No job, not in school..but can't handle that u doing ur thang...ladies don't dumb urself down for anyone...i mean come on...

6.) U giving him ur all, and he don't even CLAIM You...in others words,"he's ur boo, but ur just his HO!"

7.) U helping me out by letting him roll ur car, but he keep it all day and the next day, the day after that, pick u up from work late, leave again, then give it back to u on E!

8.)Curse u and disrespect u in front of others...his friends, ur friends, ...doesn't matter to him

9.) Physically hit u...LADIES WTF>? That is not love....

10.) Mental abuse/ non supportive...doesn't even know what ur dreams and aspirations are....

LoL..i'm not judging...i've lived all these things and then some....