just a chaos of my thoughts

Posted on Dec. 7, 2005 at 17:45 - Post Comment

I want to know whether it is possible to experience strong feelings for some one you dont know personally. I mean our life is connected with computers, with net. We learn knew people, talk to them, believe them or dont believe, we get accustomed to them. Last weeks I talked  to strangers often than to my friends. And it makes me feel somehow guilty for that, responsible for being nearer to people whom i hardly know than to people i spent the whole life with. I know that it is not only my fault here. The life separated us - we live in different cities, work in different companies and we became indifferent to each other. Sometimes i feel very lonely. And sometimes not. And now i want to know can i call people with whom i am talking in net 'friends'? And who is a friend at all?  

And also i want to know is it possible to fall in love when you dont know him or her personally? An answer is urgent needed! I dont know all the answers. I just know that there is one nice person whom i miss very much. And i hope he will find time and possibility to mail me, just to drop a couple of line.

Sorry, this entry  is totally chaotic, but i have such a chaos in my head and in my heart.

same here

Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 7, 2005 at 20:45-Link

I have these strong feelings for someone special too. And I have one word to say to you: if you start believing someone, better keep on believing him/her as long as you can; life without a belief is much difficult living. :)

From someone who has the belief in you!!

net friends...

Posted by 4everlostnalone on Dec. 8, 2005 at 03:04-Link

i think its possible to call net people real friends. i have known some online friends for over 5 years. they are as an important part of my life as i am to their's. i get regular calls from about 4 of them and have met 3 girlfriends through the net. but you have to be really careful in trusting someone that you have met online. just take it slow until their true personality comes through. good luck online and have a wonderful day.
Chol

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Posted by karensky06 on Dec. 8, 2005 at 05:28-Link

I met my boyfriend from the net and we've been
a couple for almost half a year now. I think it's
just about being creative about how to know one
another and spending time, committing to make things
work no matter how hard it is, coz it's really a lot
more harder when you are far from each other. And
i got net friends that i've been chatting with for
almost five years, we practically grew up virtually
together, finishing college,finding jobs, being in
a relationship, getting out of one. Each friend should
be unique, someone you can relate to on different
levels as compared with your other friends. I also
have really good friends from net who i introduced to
my "offline" friends so it's just like having more
friends really. ;)