An ideal man

Posted on Jan. 11, 2006 at 11:20 - Post Comment

i had a sleepless night yesterday and am a bit tired now. But not sleeping in the night made me think about a lot of things. One of them is why i am still single. Well there are sure a lot of advantages of being single and i enjoy the certain freedom but sometimes i still think why is it so, is it my fault or not, my mother is sure it is time for me to get married especially because my younger sister is and has a nice daughter. I can understand my mom - she wants grandchildren and she cares for me because i am the one who always needs some care (well ... we all are). But i dont want get married now, may be later - this however doesnt disturb any relationships. I mean you shouldnt want to get married when you are in love with somebody. It is your right to decide whether you want or dont want to be married. Marriage is still an important step in any relationships, even nowadays. My friends say my problem is that i dont want to be married and am not ready for serious relationships. I think it is nonsense. And i dont believe them  - but i admit that the problem does exist and i have to solve it. First of all i want to think it over and that is the reason why i am writing about it here  - i like to systematize everything. I will write it down then read it and try to find out what is wrong, any pieces of advise are welcome.

So what to start with? ... well .... i honestly dont know - may be i will just describe my ideal of a man and in that way i will find out what do i really need.

1.Appearance - well i dont have many expectations in that area. Only one or two or may be three. He sure must be higher than i am - but it is not a problem because i am quite small. He should have blonde hairs and blue eyes. Just joking -  i dont like blondes, and the color of eyes doent play any role. Honestly i dont think appearance plays any role in the relationship!!!

2. Age - it doesnt matter much but ... i dont know ... really 

3. He should be clever, may be even more clever than i am. It is difficult because i am clever...

4.He should be intelligent .Well he shouldnt read Murakami and Shakespear in original but i want him to know who Shakespear was. And he sure must know that russia is not only moscow, siberia, bears and vodka - it is in case when he is not from russia

5. He must be faithful and trustworthy - i want anyone who deserves my trust and love.

6.He must be tolerant and  loyal.

7.And he must love me always and forever!!!!

May be i forgot something then i will add it but frankly speaking I dont think it is  very much what i expect from a man. And when it is much then i have an excuse - i will give that man not a part of my soul but the whole soul, not the part of my heart but the whole heart. I think it is much enough.

 Just want to know whether such men are still living on this planet

someone for you...

Posted by on Jan. 12, 2006 at 07:12-Link

Lena writes.. "3. He should be clever, may be even more clever than i am. It is difficult because i am clever..." .... sigh... alas i am just only a simple man with simple hopes and dreams.
Chol

Edited by 4everlostnalone on Jan. 11, 2006 at 8:13 PM

Hummm

Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 12, 2006 at 10:18-Link

Seems like I fit the bill totally...but what about the religion and race? ;)

yours,
abhay